[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/vernost-jako-spolecenske-tabu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/vernost-jako-spolecenske-tabu\/","headline":"V\u011brnost jako spole\u010densk\u00e9 tabu","name":"V\u011brnost jako spole\u010densk\u00e9 tabu","description":"Spole\u010dnost je nastaven\u00e1 na ur\u010dit\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed vzorec, jak\u00fdm je vn\u00edm\u00e1na spole\u010densk\u00e1 normalita. Tak\u017ee pokud se j\u00ed vymyk\u00e1me, ztr\u00e1c\u00edme pocit jistoty a napln\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t pouze spole\u010dnost a pocit \u2013 jsem norm\u00e1ln\u00ed (nevymyk\u00e1m se spole\u010densky nastaven\u00e9mu vzorci). Pocit napln\u011bn\u00ed,... <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/vernost-jako-spolecenske-tabu\/\">Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed &rarr;<\/a>","datePublished":"2018-02-19","dateModified":"2023-05-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/232437c79d6ebbb41eb67b1526ce0bc08ee5047d6b1594dc05abcc3258d8e0b3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/232437c79d6ebbb41eb67b1526ce0bc08ee5047d6b1594dc05abcc3258d8e0b3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"eberunka.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a313405_w2454_t1524124578.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a313405_w2454_t1524124578.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/vernost-jako-spolecenske-tabu\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":462,"articleBody":"Spole\u010dnost je nastaven\u00e1 na ur\u010dit\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed vzorec, jak\u00fdm je vn\u00edm\u00e1na spole\u010densk\u00e1 normalita. Tak\u017ee pokud se j\u00ed vymyk\u00e1me, ztr\u00e1c\u00edme pocit jistoty a napln\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t pouze spole\u010dnost a pocit \u2013 jsem norm\u00e1ln\u00ed (nevymyk\u00e1m se spole\u010densky nastaven\u00e9mu vzorci). Pocit napln\u011bn\u00ed, neboli spln\u011bn\u00fdch vnit\u0159n\u00edch a p\u0159edem spole\u010densky dan\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, vede k pocitu \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed a v\u011bt\u011b \u201eV\u00edc u\u017e nepot\u0159ebuji.\u201c\u00a0M\u00e1me v hlav\u011b zak\u00f3dov\u00e1no, \u017ee k dokonal\u00e9mu pocitu bla\u017eenosti pot\u0159ebujeme ale n\u011bkoho dal\u0161\u00edho. My toti\u017e nedok\u00e1\u017eeme b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astni sami se sebou, ale pot\u0159ebujeme dokon\u010dit ten jeden spole\u010densk\u00fd vzorec. Domov, j\u00eddlo, pr\u00e1ce, dostatek financ\u00ed, volnost projevu a mo\u017enosti, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm rodina. A k dokonal\u00e9 rodin\u011b podle na\u0161eho k\u00f3dov\u00e1n\u00ed pat\u0159\u00ed d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 chceme m\u00edt s t\u00edm dokonal\u00fdm partnerem. Ale nikdo nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd a proto se mus\u00edme pot\u00fdkat s probl\u00e9mem, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u017eivot lehce sabotovat.\u00a0V\u011brnost partner\u016f je br\u00e1na jako n\u011bco, co mus\u00ed ve vztahu b\u00fdt, a p\u0159eci je nev\u011bra nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edm d\u016fvodem, pro\u010d se spolu partne\u0159i rozch\u00e1z\u00ed a rozv\u00e1d\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161inou je to pr\u00e1v\u011b nev\u011bra na stran\u011b mu\u017ee, kter\u00e1 vede k rozpadu vztahu, ale neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee \u017eeny jsou na vin\u011b m\u00e9n\u011b. \u017deny svoji nev\u011bru v\u011bt\u0161inou um\u00ed jen l\u00e9pe skr\u00fdt. Proto\u017ee se jedn\u00e1 o n\u011bco, co tu bylo v\u017edycky, ale nezapadalo to do spole\u010densky dan\u00e9ho vzoru pro dokonal\u00fd partnersk\u00fd vztah, spole\u010dnost zkr\u00e1tka o nev\u011b\u0159e nemluv\u00ed. Z v\u011brnosti se stalo prost\u00e9 spole\u010densk\u00e9 tabu, kter\u00e9 je kv\u016fli svoj\u00ed negativn\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159i schv\u00e1ln\u011b p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017eeno.\u00a0 A to je \u0161patn\u011b, proto\u017ee jak je zn\u00e1mo, zak\u00e1zan\u00e9 ovoce chutn\u00e1 nejl\u00e9pe.\u00a0Jedin\u00e9, co proti tomu m\u016f\u017eeme d\u011blat, je komunikovat. Pokud se ve vztahu objev\u00ed probl\u00e9my, je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed je vy\u0159e\u0161it,\u00a0 a ne ut\u00edkat. Jako lid\u00e9 m\u00e1me p\u0159\u00ed\u0161ernou vlastnost, jakou je chamtivost. Chceme v\u0161echno jen pro sebe a bezhlav\u011b na\u0161e majetnick\u00e9 sklony d\u00e1v\u00e1me na odiv i ve vztaz\u00edch. Je t\u0159eba si ale uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bka vlastnit nelze a je jen na n\u00e1s abychom se tak chovali. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk m\u00e1 sv\u016fj rozum, kter\u00fd rozhodn\u011b nechce podvolovat jin\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku a c\u00edtit se v pasti. Proto hled\u00e1 pochopen\u00ed i jinde.\u00a0Je pot\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee v\u0161ichni jsme jenom lid\u00e9.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         3.8\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u011brnost jako spole\u010densk\u00e9 tabu","item":"https:\/\/www.eberunka.cz\/vernost-jako-spolecenske-tabu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]